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The Sunday Salon (Nov.27)

November 27, 2011

Do you ever feel like your passion for books and reading isn’t taken seriously by those around you? I feel this way all of the time.

Friends and family just laugh and roll their eyes at me, thinking of me as the “crazy book lady”. They don’t (normally) buy me books as gifts because (1) they think I don’t need any more (so what if I just want them?), and (2) they don’t understand my passion, and therefore don’t know that books would be the one gift I’d be giddy to receive! :(

I’ve always had a dream of opening my own bookshop, some day. But I worry that my family won’t respect that choice of career… that they wouldn’t take that seriously, either.

Anyhoo. I got to thinking about this, last night, as I’ve been seriously rethinking my future path. While I love books and reading, and thought being a librarian or bookstore clerk would be the best job ever, now I’m not so sure.

I currently work as a receptionist in an optometrist’s office, and have worked as a customer service person for many years, in several different positions. I have come to realize, though that, while I love people and I’m great at customer service, I just don’t enjoy it. I don’t like being “on” for people all of the time; it drains me and stresses me out. I would much rather work behind the scenes, and just interact with others occasionally.

I’m now leaning toward the possibility of becoming a graphic/web designer. I can lose myself for hours designing things for my blog(s), and have always had a penchant for the arts. I’d even thought, back in high school, to become a graphic design artist, but had a teacher squash those dreams. Now, though, it seems that I’m coming back around, full-circle, to that original thought. I still love to be creative, and can see myself doing web design.

My sister is the one that inspired me. She’s recently started into the graphic design business, doing up flyers, posters, and other design work for people she knows. And, she’s doing really well, too! It made me think of how much I missed being “creative”, and drawing and such. It got me to thinking of what I could do as a work-from-home job, and the one thing that jumped out at me most clearly was graphic/web design.

People have always told me that I write well, and that I should be a Writer ~ that I should write books for a living. But, writing just doesn’t hold the same appeal for me. It doesn’t “call” to me like graphic design does. I can’t see myself writing for a living… but I can see myself doing web design! The “Renaissance Soul” in me loves that graphic design would come with variety, and continuous challenges… something I thrive on (so long as those challenges aren’t too difficult! LOL).

Anyway. That’s where my head’s been at, this past week. And, as such, I’ve been reading up on graphic design, of course! Blogs, mostly, but also books.

I’m currently reading “The Non-Designer’s Design Book” by Ms. Robin Williams. And, it’s really interesting! I have a copy of it from the library, but I’m seriously considering buying myself my own copy. It’d be handy to have as a reference.

I bought “Web Design for Dummies” by Lisa Lopuck from Amazon, last weekend, and have already learned something from it, just by skimming through! :D

 

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11 Comments
  1. Ok… that is FUN!! I love brainstorming what would be best. And… if it’s any consolation, I squirm and wriggle while designing, it feels like I make little progress and waste too much time, while writing, now, I would throw every stolen minute at THAT and think it a minute well-stolen! So… lovin’ it like you do MEANS SOMETHING!!! Fun reading your thoughts… thx for sharing!

  2. It’s the same with me, people don’t understand my passion for books, just because I have a lot of books, doesn’t mean that I have all of the titles that I want, you can never have too many books… ok, maybe you can.

  3. Good luck. One of my favorite quotes is “Happy is the man who can make a living by his hobby”. I’m happy that I work in a library, but it’s not for everyone. It is hard sometimes to be “on” all the time, but sometimes it makes me feel better when I’m not feeling the happy. Like you a book is the best gift anyone can give me. Enjoy your passions and fly with them.

  4. I can actually give a reason people might not give you books: they’re not sure what you have/have read. I’ve been told that one many a time myself.

    • Except that I’ve made it VERY easy to find books that “suit” me, as I have a wishlist of books created on LibraryThing.com and have provided my family with the links. In a way, I think it works, ’cause I’m not saying “get me this (or that) book”. I’m still letting them choose which to give me, just providing them with the titles I already know I want and that would interest me. Does that seem cheesy?

      • Not at all. I just wish I could get that to work for me sometimes.

  5. I am also interested in learning web design, however, I am not an art person so I doubt that I can make cute designs like the pros make :P

    It is good to enjoy passions as you do, one should really think about getting deeper into that. Even though you’re not be able to have your own bookstore (yet), an alternative like web designing would always be good.

    Happy designing! :D

  6. I work for a web design and marketing company; it’s always hard to find talented designers/developers (although we develop in Drupal, which is one of the more complex platforms).

    If it’s what you’re interested in, and what makes you happy, I say go for it!

  7. I know exactly what you mean about how other people react to your bookishness! It sounds very much how my family react to me! Thank goodness for other bloggers who understand our obsession completely.

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